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Saturday, November 29, 2008

Salon.com interviews author Richard Rodriguez
Rodriguez, is a Mexican-American, gay and a practicing Catholic. He says the real reason that churches are panicking about same-sex marriage lies elsewhere: the breakdown of the traditional heterosexual family and the shifting role of women in society and the church itself. The majority of women choose to live without men, and as a result, churches are losing their grip on power and scapegoating gays and lesbians for their failures.

http://www.salon.com/news/feature/2008/11/25/proposition_8_religion/index.html
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New Yorker Article Predicts that Gay Marriage will Happen Eventually
The New Yorker cites the field poll as support for the view that gay marriage will eventually be a reality:

The Field Poll, one of California’s most respected, found last month that while the state’s over-sixty-fives oppose gay marriage by a thirty-point margin, the under-thirty-fives favor it by thirteen points—and it’s hard to think of a reason that getting older should change their minds.

Here is what the New Yorker has to say about African Americans voting down Propositon 8:

If exit polling is to be believed, seventy per cent of California’s African-American voters did indeed vote yes on Prop. 8, as did upward of eighty per cent of Republicans, conservatives, white evangelicals, and weekly churchgoers. But the initiative would have passed, barely, even if not a single African-American had shown up at the polls.
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Thursday, November 27, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving! Read More About Being Happy!
There was a conference on happiness this week in San Francisco. It featured psychologists, biologists, MD's and others. This article talks about the conference as well as a study showing there is no a correlation between money and happiness. Given the recent stock market declines, most people should be happy to know this. Try and be happy today...and give thanks to all.  http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/27/us/27happy.html?ref=us
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Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Big Day for Gay Rights! Here are the four articles in today's paper. Most interesting is that a Florida court ruled that a ban on allowing gays and lesbians to adopt is unconstitutional!!

And CA is going after the Mormons!!


Australian Legislators Back Gay Rights

Australian lawmakers have approved legislation giving homosexual couples the same rights as heterosexuals but have ruled out legalizing same-sex marriages.

U.S. / POLITICS

Inquiry Set on Mormon Aid for California Marriage Vote

California officials will investigate accusations that the Mormon Church neglected to report nonmonetary contributions on behalf of a ballot measure to ban same-sex marriage.

US

Florida Gay Adoption Ban Is Ruled Unconstitutional

A Florida law that has banned adoptions by gay men and lesbians for over three decades is unconstitutional, a judge ruled on Tuesday.

US

California: Head of Festival Quits

The director of the Los Angeles Film Festival, Richard Raddon, has resigned after the revelation that he donated money to support a ballot measure that outlawed same-sex marriage.

MOVIES

Freedom Fighter in Life Becomes Potent Symbol in Death

Harvey Milk was an intriguing, inspiring figure. And “Milk” is a marvel.

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Tuesday, November 25, 2008

NY Times Opinion on Proposition 8 v.s. Opinion by McGurn in WSJ
The New York Times opinion supports the idea that it isn't right for a popular vote to take away rights from someone who already has them. It says that if this type of vote was to hold, it should require a 2/3 majority vs. a simple majority. Otherwise this same-sex vote is going to set a precedent for all kinds of rights to be taken away. I guess we'll know sometime in the middle of next year whether the CA Supreme Court agrees with the NY Times. http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/25/opinion/25tue4.html?_r=1&emc=tnt&tntemail1=y

William McGurn takes the opposite view in his opinion in today's WSJ. He says, "The great achievement of our system was to create a political order where these great moral disputes, as a matter of policy, are left to the people -- with allowance for differences according to region and locale. Moral agents have a role to play, generally by shaping the larger culture in which these decisions are framed and debated. But the outcome is left to the people acting through their elected representatives, a process that inevitably involves compromise, trade-offs and messy accommodations." http://online.wsj.com/article/SB122757137423754669.html

Mr. McGurn wants to let a simple majority decide whether rights should be given or taken away. Let the decision to discrimminate be decided based on the current culture and the debate surrounding the issue.

I hope CA Supreme Court follows the opinion the NY Times has laid out.
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Sunday, November 23, 2008

Globe Article Discusses the Desparity in Gay Movies

This is a good article looking at the range of movies from documentary or serious ones, like Milk or Philadephia to ones that are more sexually oriented, too flamboyant. It asks the question, how come we don't have movies that gay people would be proud to say they are going out to see, maybe even with their straight friends.  Good question. Maybe its that Hollywood is uncomfortable with a "motherhood and apple pie" movie about gay characters. The reality is that there aren't many mainstream books written either about gay characters. I am writing one....almost done. Preference for Love is about my family. It's a real story about real characters, some of whom are gay. It's about how everyone deserves to be as happy as they can be, gay or not. More to come soon!!
http://www.boston.com/ae/movies/articles/2008/11/23/how_gay_is_that/?page=3

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Friday, November 21, 2008

More on CA Proposition 8 Going to CA Supreme Court
The New York Times reviews the issue as well as previous outcomes in other states. http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/21/us/21marriage.html?ref=us
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Wednesday, November 19, 2008

CA Supreme Court to Review Whether to Overturn Proposition 8 Ban
It looks like the Supreme Court of California is going to do a pretty quick review of whether the ban should stand or be reversed. http://www.boston.com/news/nation/articles/2008/11/19/calif_supreme_court_to_take_up_gay_marriage_ban/
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Anna Quindlen Speaks Out and Provides Hope
Comparing the fight for same-sex marriage with interracial marriage, Anna provides an excellent analysis of why we can except gay rights to prevail long term. http://www.newsweek.com/id/169157/page/1
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Monday, November 17, 2008

Massachusetts Finds Same-Sex Marriage Approval Ratings Have Increased Significantly -- to Nearly 60%
A Massachusetts poll conducted by the Suffolk University Political Research Center in August showed that 59% approved of same-sex marriage and only 37% were opposed.  This is extremely positive since a poll by the same group in 2004 found only 42% were in favor and 44% were opposed. http://www.boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/articles/2008/11/17/5_years_later_views_shift_subtly_on_gay_marriage/?page=2



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Sunday, November 16, 2008

Tens of Thousands of Gay Rights Supporters Protect Throughout U.S.
All over the U.S. gay rights supporters are marching this weekend, a clear sign that the fight for equality continues.  http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/16/us/16protest.html?pagewanted=1&ref=us
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Saturday, November 15, 2008

What a Double Standard!!

The diocese of Charlton SC has publicly rebuked Rev. Jay Scott Newman for telling Catholics who voted for Barack Obama they shouldn't take Communion unless they go to confession first. He said this because Obama supports abortion.  When the comments caused a huge outrage, Newman said he'd been misinterpreted. But his diocese is now saying that he misrepresented the church's position, and that Obama voters don't need to go to confession before seeking Communion. Per the diocese released statement,

*  The Catechism of the Catholic Church states, 'Man has the right to act in conscience and in freedom so as personally to make moral decisions.'

*  The Catechism goes on to state: 'In the formation of conscience the Word of God is the light for our path; we must assimilate it in faith and prayer and put it into practice. We must also examine our conscience before the Lord’s Cross. We are assisted by the gifts of the Holy Spirit, aided by the witness or advice of others and guided by the authoritative teaching of the Church.'


*  Christ gives us freedom to explore our own conscience and to make our own decisions while adhering to the law of God and the teachings of the faith. Therefore, if a person has formed his or her conscience well, he or she should not be denied Communion, nor be told to go to confession before receiving Communion.


*  The pulpit is reserved for the Word of God. Sometimes God’s truth, as is the Church’s teaching on abortion, is unpopular. All Catholics must be aware of and follow the teachings of the Church."

But it's okay for the San Franciso archbishop to call the Mormon's into fight against same-sex marriage. What happened to allowing people the right to their own individual conscience? 
http://www.boston.com/news/local/articles_of_faith/2008/11/diocese_priest.html


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Mormans Role in Gay Marriage Defeat Initated by Catholic Church
A NYTimes article reported yesterday that two weeks before the Proposition 8 vote, the San Franciso archbishop of the Catholic Church reached out to the Mormon leadership for help defeating the proposed amendment.  The leaders of Protect Marriage, the main group working for the gay marriage ban raised more than $5 million just a few weeks before the vote, including a $1 million donation from Alan C. Ashton, the grandson of a former president of the Mormon Church. Also a strategist with Protect Marriage said that Mormans made up 80-90% of the initial canvasing efforts. At my Catholic Church the pastor repeatedly tells us that God loves us all without judgement. Catholics in San Fransisco who support same-sex marriage, and I am sure there are many who do, should stop contributing $ to the church. Go if you want to, but don't give financial support. It became obvious from the priest pedophile scandal that the Catholic Church responds when they are hit in the pocketbook.  http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/15/us/politics/15marriage.html?th&emc=tho
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Friday, November 14, 2008

Judith Warner of the WSJ writes compelling article supporting gay marriage
Today Judith Warner of the NY Times writes a touching article about what it felt to be sitting in CA hearing the positive election news about Obama and realizing your new marriage might be dissolved, not of your own doing. Read on! http://warner.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/11/13/dark-side-of-the-vote/
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Thursday, November 13, 2008

Huge Percentage of Middle and High School Student Face Harrassment
GLSEN, the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, released the most comprehensive report ever on the experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) students, the 2007 National School Climate Survey. The survey of 6,209 middle and high school students found that nearly 9 out of 10 LGBT students (86%) experienced harassment at school in the past year, 60% felt unsafe at school because of their sexual orientation and 33% had skipped a day of school in the past month because of feeling unsafe. http://www.glsen.org/cgi-bin/iowa/all/news/record/2340.html
9:42 am est          Comments

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Same-sex marriage
I am so happy to live in Massachusetts! But even those of us who live here have to keep working to support people who live in other states. We all deserve to achieve our dream of obtaining the same benefits heterosexuals take for granted.
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